Welcome to Forbidden Fruit Fridays!
Dedicated to exploring the recesses of the sexual realm that may be considered decadent indulgences, immoral pleasures, and desires that are tempting…but sinfully dangerous, Forbidden Fruit Fridays features thoughts, articles, educational guides, visual stimulation, experiences, trends and conversations with friends that explores sex in every flavor richer than vanilla.
And don’t forget; always keep a lover close at hand after visiting Forbidden Fruit Fridays. Trust me, it will make your weekend that more…satisfying.
Bad Sex. Good Sex.
Now, don't roll your eyes when you read the next sentence.
We've all had at least one "eh" sexual experience.
What's that? No? You've had the GREATEST sex each and every time? Well, damn. Either you're lying or you're the luckiest person I know.
For the rest of us, the "eh" sexual experience was most likely because the sexual compatibility just wasn't there. When I hear people talk about a past lover not being good in bed or so good that they knocked the filing out of their teeth, I always ask why.
What was good? What was bad?
Of course "size" came up- small penis, no breasts. But I've also heard the small sizes uttered in the 'good in bed category'...
"He wasn't well endowed, but damn, he knew how to make up for it."
"Her front looked like her back, but with her oral talents, I didn't care."
I've also heard the same man described in both the bad and good category for different women.
So, what makes a good lover goes deeper than the physical attributes. It really has to do with preferences, moods, comfort levels and compatibility in partners.
Here are some entertaining videos from both male and female views on bad sex:
Women on Men
Men on Women
Okay. Enough with bad sex. You get it.
Here are some some interesting articles from both the male and female perspective on what makes a good lover.
Lastly, ask yourself....what the heck do I want when it comes to sex? Sex is one of the greatest experiences to be had and understanding you, letting go of sexual hangups, being confident, and just being truthful in what makes you satisfied behind closed doors makes all the difference in the world.
Consider taking these quizzes to better understand your preferences. And try having your lover take the quiz as well so you both can be each others sexual fantasy:
Meet Maya DeLeina "The Vamp"
Maya DeLeina is an Erotic Vampire Author published with Siren and Evernight Publishing. Maya delves into sexual fantasies of the blood and fang fetish that leaves readers tingling in all the right places.