#TemptMeTuesday: After Sex/ To cuddle or not to cuddle?To shower or not to shower?

#TemptMeTuesday: After Sex/ To cuddle or not to cuddle?To shower or not to shower?
May Water

Snuggling or not snuggling after sex, cleaning up right away or not, and even pillow talk in bed aren't exactly hot topics. But they are issues that every couple(or trio, or more) having sex faces when the sex is done. Whether it be a quickie or a longie, you still have to face the other person afterwards. How that is handled can be a very big deal if one's After Sex personality isn't known ahead of time, or if your personalities are very different. Many times it's a case of simply not knowing the person enough in general that leads to post sex confusion. In budding relationships (before sex) we might discuss STD's, birth control, fetishes, previous partners, and other issues pertaining to sex , but not everyone talks about what happens AFTER sex. I think After Sex can be just as important as the actual act itself.  Why? because chemicals are released during sex,

bonding and attachment can happen, leaving one or both parties vulnerable. Confusion can occur if a person isn't prepared for the others After Sex behavior.   I've seen budding relationships suffer due to the discrepancies in how After Sex is handled.
Some people not only enjoy snuggling up to their amour after sex, but crave it.  This can be a problem if the other person is more of the 'I need my space' type.  Partner #1 might keep a leg draped over their beloved, caress them affectionately, or want to gaze into their honey's eyes.  If Partner #2 gets over- stimulated by all the touching or simply feels they can't breathe, you can see how it could be seen as a rejection if Partner # 2 scurries to their side of the bed or actually rises and gets dressed. If After Sex behavior wasn't discussed, it can definitely be seen as a rejection by Partner #1, regardless of what Partner #2's motives are.
Another discrepancy in After Sex personalities is the cleanliness issue. The problem arises when one partner wants nothing more than to jump out of bed and into the shower, or at the very least  scrub off with a washcloth or wipes, while the other partner wants to lie blissfully in their combined love juices.  Many find texture of sexual fluids an aphrodisiac, while others are offended by it. Can you see how one person could feel affronted when their lover is in a huge rush to wash all traces of their lovemaking away?

Pillow talk is another area where personality differences shine through. Some people want to chit chat, chat chit, and then chit chat some more after sex. While others simply don't.  Maybe one person feels energized with sex, while the other is drained.  Maybe one person feels more emotionally connected after sex and opens up, while the other doesn't feel the same connection. It could just be a basic difference is communication.  Calling, texting, and touching base afterwards also falls into After Sex behavior. One person expecting increased communication can be a real problem if the other person isn't on the same wave length. Raise your hand if you've ever felt confused at a lovers lack of communication After Sex. My hand is raised.
One's After Sex actions  can be misinterpreted and leave the other person feeling used, unwanted, and even dirty. The answer? I 'm not totally sure but I think a huge part is getting to really know something BEFORE you take the sexual plunge. As with everything else, communication never hurts.  Just something to keep in mind if you're dating and it's leading toward a sexual relationship: why not throw in some information about your typical After Sex behavior before you enter the bedroom? Especially if you have habits that might seem strange to another person. Your partner will have more information which is always a good thing. It could make things a whole lot less uncomfortable.

Communicate, be aware of your partner, and have fun! May

Temptation on Molten Monday with Missy Jane + A Contest!

Temptation

When it comes to romance, a lot of times the hero and heroine aren’t supposed to be together. They shouldn’t want each other for one reason or another. But with any good story, the temptation is just too much. They can barely spend time in shared space without wanting to touch, taste, feel. The scent of her perfume and the sound of his voice are too much to ignore. They have to be together regardless of the consequences. Have you ever experienced that level of temptation?

Here’s a confession, I have…kind of. I met my husband when I was working as an assistant manager of a grocery store deli. His best friend worked for me and he wanted a job there too. After he was hired he asked me out. I said no. I refused to go out with someone who worked under me. He quit a week later and asked me out again. Though I was pissed at him for quitting, I was also intrigued. No one had ever shown that level of desire for me up to that point. He actually quit the job just for a date! Sure I kind of thought it was irresponsible too. But I couldn’t resist him. And the rest is history. We’ve been together seventeen years.

That first date was a lesson in temptation as well. Let’s just say things progressed very quickly between us. I think we both felt that irresistible pull and knew it was meant to be. To date he is still my biggest temptation, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. What kind of temptation have you had to deal with, did you cave? Leave a comment and you might win a prize.

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Here is the blurb from my latest release, where temptation almost costs the heroine everything:

Heather’s Redemption

Missy Jane

Not mixing business with pleasure is easier said than done when working twelve-hour days at her family business. However, after Heather’s recent office affair ended in disaster, she’s determined to stick to her guns and ignore her attraction to the new guy, Zach. No matter how deliciously tempting he may be.

Zach knows falling for Heather Wellington is professional suicide, but resisting the intriguing and intelligent beauty is much harder than expected. She’s quickly proving to be everything he wants in a woman, despite the rumors circulating about her past. And once he touches her, all bets are off. Now all he needs to do is prove to her she’s worthy of a second chance and more than capable of redemption.

A Romantica® contemporary erotic romance from Ellora’s Cave

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#SinfullySassySundays: #TheVixen Revisits #Erotic Food Play

This is one of our most popular posts since Four Seduced Muses inception. It was originally put up right after Thanksgiving, a time we give thanks for all our blessings and for all the fabulous foods friends and family share together at one table.  Our love affair with food doesn't have to stop at the dining room or kitchen. We also don't need a special holiday to get down and dirty with something sweet and savory. 

Researching the various foods, beverages and spices that are known to increase the libido can be fun in itself. You can't just read about it and take someone else's word as gospel. You need to experiment a bit yourself as I did with Mr. Vixen! ;)

Well, I had to be sure I was reporting the most up to date information to you and not just old wives' tales. Right? My reputation as The Vixen is on the line here. Rest assured, the information presented today is definitely not in the Old Wive's Tale category nor is anything a myth as some would have you believe. Take a look at this famous clip from the movie "9 1/2 Weeks" starring Kim Bassinger and Mickey Rourke.

Yes, my lovelies. Food can and should be brought into the bedroom during play time. Certain fruits and vegetables can make you and your partner taste fantastic. Other foods are just plain fun, bringing out that inner child and playfulness that can be oh so sexy and a huge turn on for not only you, but your partner(s) as well.  Look at how much fun both lovers had in the previous video. They turned their game of guess this flavor into a night of fabulously sticky sex. Is that for everyone? Nope, but if it's something you'd like to give a go, talk to your partner and set up a bit of the naughty play that does appeal to you.  Here are a few ideas to consider.

Are you HOT or COLD?

Have a variety of items near the bed to put in your mouth before kissing or licking your partner's body. Hot tea, cocoa, or coffee vs. iced water can be a great way to alter the sensation your mouth can give when performing oral sex on your partner.  Another item is Creme de menthe. Swirl it in your mouth for a few moments before performing fellatio. Then pop him out of your mouth and blow on his penis. This will create a cool to cold sensation that is totally opposite of what he was feeling a moment before.  Sucking on cinnamon Altoids will have the same effect.  Other cold items to try would be a Popsicle, ice cubes or frozen juice cubes. 

Are you SWEET or SOUR?

Candy Buttons: Remember these little treats? They're not just for kids. Peel them off, lick the back of each one and stick them in various places on your body. Then have your partner slowly nibble them off one by one. 

Candy Warheads: Here's one for those of you who love the sour candies. Place a one or two of them in your mouth, suck on them for a few moments so they are coated with your saliva. Then rub them on a few of your erogenous zones and let your partner find the zones with just his sense of taste.  Who knows? Maybe you'll introduce your partner to a zone or two he/she hasn't discovered on you yet! 

Candy Necklace: Use this bit of edible jewelry as a garter under your clothes. During an evening out, give your partner a few sneak peeks at the candy on your body with the promise he/she can eat it off of you as soon as you get home!

BERRIES vs CITRUS

These are the most popular foods to be linked with fun sex games. People for ages have been including strawberries into their games of seduction, but there are so many other fruits to choose from. Not only do they taste great themselves, but they have the added bonus of making your cum taste fantastic as well. 

I know some of you are rolling your eyes at that, but it's very true. It's a known scientific fact that the foods you eat can make your body fluids taste differently. If you eat a lot of dairy and red meat, your cum will be very salty. Too much onion or garlic in your foods can make you taste a bit off and don't get me started on asparagus! If you are hoping for a night of "wine me, dine me, sixty-nine me" you had better skip the asparagus, garlic, onions, beer, Brussels sprouts, cabbage, and kale...just to name a few. Those foods will give your cum a bitter taste and pretty much kill the mood.

Instead partake in a variety of melons, mango, papaya, berries, bananas, pineapple, parsley, wheat grass and celery. All of these will help give your secretions a flavor and scent that will leave your partner begging for more.

Drinking juices such as orange, grape, papaya, mango and pineapple can all give you the same result, but wouldn't it be more fun to have a platter of these delectable delights and take turns feeding them to each other? Better yet, why not take turns eating them OFF OF each other? 

Get the picture?

So go on, try a few of these suggestions. See which ones appeal the most to you and your partner and have fun.  Before I go, I want to leave you with another example of another famous TV couple getting their freak on with food. If you compare them to Kim and Mickey, then this next couple will be demonstrating what NOT to do with food in the bedroom.  

Until next week, 
~The Vixen 

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Tammy Dennings Maggy is a multi-published poet and erotic romance author with Siren and Sassy Vixen Publishing. Her writing explores many facets of romance from ultimate betrayal to finding your soul mate. Her poetry serves as a companion to her novels and has inspired entire series all on their own. Tammy and her alter egos Lia Michaels and Stephanie Ryan make up the core authors at Sassy Vixen Publishing and together they've created the shared world series Temptations Resort. Look for the first books in that series to come out later this year.

Now happily married to her own Muse and soul mate, she continues to live her dream and act as secretary to all her characters demanding to have their stories told.

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Jess Buffet joins the Muses on Sultry Saturday

Hi everyone, and a big thank you to the lovely Muses for having me!

Today I’m here to introduce a new release that I have coming out in July.

While it’s true that I usually write MM romance, on July 27^th I have a treat on the form of A contemporary western MF romance titled Cowboy’s Chocolate Roses. It’s a story which follows cowboy Joshua Kell, and shy but determined Brianna Evans find their way through misunderstandings, a crazed maniac and a few other…bumps ;-)

So here is a little sneak peek to tide you over until July:

Having just signed a deal that will set his ranch up for life, Joshua Kell is totally unprepared for the changes that are headed his way. After a night spent with the woman of his dreams, Josh is devastated when he wakes up alone. Packing his bags, he heads for home, nursing a broken heart.

Brianna Evans has spent the last two years struggling to take back control of her life after a horrific trauma. When events lead her to Josh, she finally believes there is a chance for her to be happy again.

When a ghost from her past threatens to take everything away from her, Bri must trust that her cowboy will stop at nothing to keep her safe.

EXCERPT –

He kissed her slowly, sipping at her lips and whispering, "Not allowed to forget this time."

"Josh," Bri gasped as he leaned down to kiss the tender flesh of her neck.

His hands slid up and down her sides, moving higher and higher until he reached the curve of her breasts. A deep moan slipped past her lips when Josh finally slid his hands around to cup her mounds. "Josh. Please, yes..." she whispered.

Josh traced his tongue over her throat, then to her ear, nipping at it lightly. Her breath caught as he plucked at first one, then the other nipple through the flimsy material, and her legs drew up around his waist, holding him more firmly to her. Josh continued to knead her flesh, then suddenly slid his hands downward; she moaned in disappointment. Her moan turned into a gasp as he grabbed the hem of the nightie and yanked it up and off of her. Hooking his fingers into the cotton of her panties, he pulled back long enough to slid them down and off her legs before settling back into place. She now lay naked and exposed, and she reveled in the feel of his body on top of her. A small cry left her lips when he slipped a hand between her parted legs, his fingers stroking at her folds. It had been so long.

As if feeling her ready for him had snapped his control, Josh abruptly sat up. She watched as he undid the button of his jeans, shoving them down his hips and taking his briefs with them. Soon he kneeled between her legs, bare as she was, and his shaft leaking as it stood at its full length; he had to be at least nine inches. Laying on top of her, he dipped his head and Bri could feel Josh's hot breath on her breast. She moaned as his mouth claimed her erect nipple, shuddering and clutching at him tighter as he closed over the small nub and began to suck, sending shock waves of pleasure and excitement rippling through her body.

Her excitement grew as his hand found its way lower and he pressed against the wet folds of her pussy again, this time parting them and finding her swollen clit. Stroking her with his thumb, he slid two fingers inside of her as she cried out his name, "Josh!"

"God, you're so wet. So ready for me already," he groaned, thrusting his fingers deep inside her.

"Yes. Please, I'm so ready. Take me, now," she demanded. She couldn't take anymore, she needed him now.

"Yes. Now," he rasped as he positioned himself and drove into her.

Bri screamed out in ecstasy.

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A guide to Maya's real life vampire characters

Welcome to Forbidden Fruit Fridays!

Dedicated to exploring the recesses of the sexual realm that may be considered decadent indulgences, immoral pleasures, and desires that are tempting…but sinfully dangerous, Forbidden Fruit Fridays features thoughts, articles, educational guides, visual stimulation, experiences, trends and conversations with friends that explores sex in every flavor richer than vanilla.

And don’t forget; always keep a lover close at hand after visiting Forbidden Fruit Fridays. Trust me, it will make your weekend that more…satisfying.

~Maya DeLeina “The Vamp”

A guide to Maya’s real life vampire characters
 

What makes a man sexy? The answers are obviously subjective.

When I’m in character development, I use a three trigger point system to create my man. When I think about physical attraction, it’s these trigger points that always proves to be a sure fire way of capturing the essence of magnetism. Sure, each trigger has endless qualities or factors that a woman’s taste will vary on, but in its primitive form, these are the ingredients to create an undeniable and delicious temptation.

1. Masculinity-

Firm butt? Bulging Bicep? Washboard abs? No. Masculinity is not always an anatomical attribute. Masculinity is inherent and embodied in the most basic characteristics of the man. It’s in his stance, in his walk, the way he takes a swig of his beer, answers the phone, nods a response, sits in a chair, or grunts during lovemaking. Even if reminiscent of caveman-like tendencies, it’s still all man and oozes that natural and innate manliness.

2. Capture-

Loving a man’s eyes or smile does not necessarily mean it’s the particular color or shape that breeds the attraction or the perfectly constructed veneers that takes your breath away. Why a woman is instantly captured is centered all on what his eyes and smile speaks to her.  A glint, sparkle, wink, stare, or smirk, can whisper “come here”, “you make me happy”, “you’re the one”, or “kiss me”. Speaking without words breaks down resistance and is a great power two people can savor.

3. Confidence-

Acting like a “look-at-me” asshole is not confidence…but rather the lack thereof.  Confidence is the man that doesn’t need horns announcing his arrival to make a statement in a room. The poise and assurance he carries exudes an aura of authority that keeps a woman’s eyes riveted. Even if sitting in a darkened corner, a good balance of self assurance can put him in the spotlight, as if he was on a stage.

So, there you go- my three-step process of molding my male characters. Although built by a formula, they are never the same. And this is exactly what I look for in my on-screen and print counterparts for my characters.

Take a look…

Vampire Rhys

Vampire Armand

Vampire Steffan

Who will be next?

Author Maya DeLeina and Model Jim LeVasseur

Stay tuned!

My newest vampire will be here soon...

which means his story and a new series will also be revealed!

 

Going to RomCon®? 

Come by at meet my vampire. He'll be at my "Speed Date the Author" and Book signing event at RomCon® on 6/21/2013 for reader meet and greet.

Don't worry ladies, he won't bite... unless you ask nicely.

The Four Seduced Muses, The Vamp and The Vixen, will be at RomCon® 2013 in Colorado Springs June 20-23 2013.

EVENT SCHEDULE:

Speed Date Maya- Fri June 21st 10:55am (requires ticket)

Meet Maya and book signing- Fri June 21st 4:30pm (open to public)

Speed Date Tammy- Fri June 21st 1:00pm (requires ticket)

Meet Tammy and book signing-Sat June 22nd 3:50pm (open to public)

Readers Crown Brunch- Sun June 23rd 10:15am (requires ticket)

ABOUT ROMCON

RomCon® is the total fan convention for those of us who love to read romance and genre fiction. At RomCon®, our entire weekend experience is centered around meeting authors you love, interacting with them in an intimate, one-on-one setting, playing games and having fun with like-minded friends. It is a true reader con, putting the wants and needs of readers at the forefront, and offering authors the opportunity to meet new readers and build friendships in a casual, relaxed atmosphere. RomCon caters to readers of all types of romance, urban fantasy, and women's fiction!

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Get to Know Maya DeLeina of Forbidden Fruit Fridays 

Maya and Jim

Maya DeLeina is a multi-published Erotic Vampire Author with Siren and Evernight Publishing that has recently signed a 3-book contract with her dream publisher and paired talents with a fellow erotic author for a collaborative series which will all be announced and released in 2013 and 2014.

Maya was born and raised on the beautiful and romantic beaches of Oahu, Hawaii. Relocating to Colorado, Maya's crystal blue oceans and powdery white sands were traded for enchanting forests, mystic mountains and golden plains of promise.

Living just on the outskirts of Manitou Springs, the town's history of spiritual healing, eclectic flare, fabled underground tunnels and rumored lore of wizardry and witchcraft rekindled Maya's love for the paranormal, metaphysical and most of all, vampires.

One bite and she was hooked.

Maya’s books have won multiple cover art awards, garnered 4-5 star reviews from critics and book trailer awards, the most recent for Suzanne Lucas’ production of Blood of Luna. 

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From the Archives: Putting the FUN back in Date Night!

Welcome to Thirsty Thursdays where Four Seduced Muses Erotic Suspense Romance author, Nicole Morgan treats us all with a few tricks on how to keep your love life spicy, your imagination craving and your thirst never quite quenched enough. After all, one should never just be satisfied, but instead open their minds to what else is out there. So sit back, relax and enjoy what we have to offer you today! 

Putting the FUN back in Date Night! 

For today's topic I wanted to talk about something that many of us can probably relate to, and something that I've touched on frequently in my Thirsty Thursday segments... I'm talking about ways to keep your relationship fresh, adventurous, spontaneous and most of all FUN!!! 

With the summer months upon us, many of us will be taking advantage of the nice weather. We'll want to get out more, and enjoy the enticing time spring and summer. But, how many of us get caught up in the extravagance of dating? You can easily drop $100 just by going out to dinner and a movie these days. Personally there are a million other things I'd like to do than get all dressed up for some fancy dinner. Sure these romantic outings have their place, but you have to let loose and be carefree sometimes as well. 

Below are a few things that you can do as a couple without breaking the bank. 

• Do you like guns? Why not go to the shooting range as a couple? One or two hours on the
  
  range letting off some steam and practicing your skills are a great way to bond as a couple. Plus, who's to say you couldn't have a little wager? Maybe a bet over who gets the best shot. Then winner could get.... well, that part would be up for you two to decide. 

• Forget about those $200 seats behind the dugout. Go to the box office and buy a couple of
  
  the cheap seats. Stop at the grocery store on the way to the ballpark and get your snacks at a fraction of the cost what you would pay in the ballpark. Pick up some peanuts, Cracker Jacks or whatever else you might crave. Bring enough cash for at least one meal item (hot dog, bratwurst, etc.) and a few drinks for each of you. Then while you're there, HAVE FUN! And don't forget to take a snap shot so you can remember the day!

• Forget about the expensive golf clubs in the garage. Grab your honey and go to the local
  
  miniature golf adventure course. This is also a place where you can have some fun with who has the better shot. After you've completed the course, do it again! RELATED TIP: Those little putters are good tools for goosing someone when they bend over. Just sayin' *winks*

• Feeling hungry? Grab a bite to eat somewhere you've never been before. Don't go to the
  
  same Italian place. Don't visit the same sports bar. Go to a diner, a cafe, something which is the opposite of fancy, the kind of place where the only frills is the person sitting right across from you. Then after dinner, don't rush home. Go for a drive and find somewhere to park! Turn up the music and see where the mood takes you. RELATED TIP: Watch for cops, some things are not okay in public. *winks* 

• This is the last one, but it's my favorite! Order dinner in. The meal doesn't matter. It could
  
  be pizza, Chinese, sandwiches or wings! The food isn't the important part, but what you do is. Next, get a deck of cards or a board game. Again, the game doesn't matter, but how you use it will be. Although, I do recommend a game of Scrabble. Try it with only using flirty or sexual words! *winks* Once the dinner gets there start eating and let the games begin. Don't go too fast. Have fun and just like some of my other ideas above, don't forget to place a wager!

Nicole Morgan is an author of erotic romance novels, which more often than not have a suspenseful back story. Erotic romance mixed with good old-fashioned whodunit. While she's written everything from contemporary to paranormal her leading men will more than likely be wearing a uniform of some kind. From military to police officers, she has a love for writing about those who protect and serve. From her very first novel (which turned into a four book series) about Navy SEALs to her more recent releases you will be sure to find a few twists and turns you were not expecting.

She also has a recurring monthly column in Book & Trailer Showcase's eMagazine, and is a proud member of the Romance Books 4 Us Gold Authors. 

Find out more about Nicole and her books by visiting her website, blog, Google + Page, Twitter, Facebook and her Yahoo Group, Nicole’s Think Tank.

Until next week lovies ~ Nic 

Aphrodisiacs on Wanton Wednesday with Rose Anderson

Long before Nero chose a tune to fiddle while Rome burned, there existed a concept about plants and their uses. It was believed that the gods signed every plant the human body could use: plants with liver-shaped leaves would be beneficial to the liver. Plants with red sap would, of course, be useful to the blood. The idea came to full fruit, no pun intended, during the Renaissance. This crazy philosophy was called the Doctrine of Signatures. It didn’t take long for plants with suggestive shapes to become aphrodisiacs. 

It is worth mentioning, but I won’t go long into the lunacy that leads to the slaughter of rhinos and tigers, both endangered animals, because their phallus-shaped horns and dried genitalia are ground into today’s Asian medicines for men suffering from virility issues. You can add killing gravid (egg-full) turtles to this insanity too.

People draw some pretty crazy conclusions. You don’t have to go far into research to learn the most well-known of this unfortunate lot are the oysters and clams. Just because they’re shaped the way they are associates them with testicles and labia. I mean really, a plate of oysters at dinner means you’re going to rock the Kasbah later? Well, at least they have the mineral zinc going for them. Zinc is a necessary trace element, it actually helps the production of testosterone. Funny thing about zinc. It also comes in lozenges. Cherry flavored too. Oyster vs. lozenge. Now there’s a study in the making. 

Any empiric study of aphrodisiacs will show a healthy diet and a regular exercise program that promotes good circulation makes far more sense than sucking on goats eyes and drinking deer semen. To those who must drive a species to extinction to get off, I say watch porn instead. Studies show that porn actually does stimulate libido (unlike the dried tiger penis placebo). Still, to some, the scrotal shape of the oyster shell bespeaks of raw male power. And desire begins in the mind.

I find ingesting such things for sexual potency to be absurd. So rather than outrage myself further, I’m going to focus on plants as aphrodisiacs.

A Renaissance man preparing for a night of wild unparalleled stamina would look to the cornucopia of scrotum-shaped and phallus-shaped fruits and vegetables. Avocados and garlic are two of the obvious testicle foods. There are far more penile foods out there: zucchini, carrots, bananas, pineapple (must be that stalk), and asparagus – basically anything long and firm. There’s also acorn meal and suggestively-shaped mushrooms. I don’t quite get the figs though. Seems a little short of the goal. Oh you silly men.

There are foods, by design, that are considered female libido enhancers. Oddly enough ruffled leaves of some greens are considered aphrodisiacs – Arugula, aka rocket, has labial associations. I suppose. Figs with their juicy red centers are the obvious. Just about all red and juicy fruits fall into this column, but figs are said to be the most suggestive of all the fruits. In fact, a man opening a fig slowly and eating it in front of his lover is considered to be performing a powerfully erotic act in the Mediterranean. All yoni-shaped foods like almonds, anise seeds, and pine nuts, are said to get a woman in the mood for love. Given my Sicilian heritage, I’ve seen many a wedding with those delightful candied almonds as favors. Fertility is the point.

Vanilla, ginko, chili peppers, yohimbine, and ginger for example, are some of the edibles that have genuine circulation benefits, and circulation is key. Some, like chocolate, coffee and malt vinegar have phenylethylamine, a stimulant to the central nervous system. My husband has given me many boxes of chocolates in the 36 years we’ve been together. He’s also poured me countless cups of coffee during that time. Not once did he offer a bottle of malt vinegar!

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Along with her husband, son and daughter, and small menagerie, Rose Anderson lives amid rolling glacial hills covered with oak groves and prairie in the green and lovely upper mid-west. In this chapter of her life she’s a multi-published author who loves painting with words. As a student of the human condition, Rose likes to play with symbolism and metaphor dealing with core issues related to being human. Readers will find insights into the ongoing search for the ultimate meaning of existence tucked into her stories. Believing we are all on the same journey, she hopes they strike a personal chord when discovered.

Rose writes detail-rich erotic romances with happily ever after in many shades. Her compelling heroes and heroines are easy to fall in love with, and her villains…well let’s not give too much away. When not writing, Rose gathers with friends for drumming, poetry, energy work (Reiki) and great discussions. You’ll also find her tirelessly dogged by her furry companions.